In the United States:
Closed vs open adoption:
A closed adoption is one where no identifying information about the birth family or the adoptive family is shared between the two, and there is no contact between the families. As the adoptive family, you will receive non-identifying information about the child and birth family before he or she joins your family. After your adoption is finalized, the records are sealed. Depending on local law and what paperwork was signed and filed when the adoption was finalized, these records may or may not be available to the adopted child when they reach 18.
An open adoption allows for some form of association among the birth parents, adoptive parents and the child they adopted. This can include picture and letter sharing, phone and video calls, or even intermediary or open contact among the parties themselves. Many adoptions of older children and teenagers are at least partially open since the children may already know identifying or contact information about members of their birth families, and may want to stay in touch with siblings placed separately.
Adopting your Stepchild
Step-parent adoption is directed by state law, and each state has its own laws: For example, some states do not require a home study for step-parent adoption. Most will mandate that a couple be married for a certain length of time, which varies from state to state. Some states require or strongly encourage legal representation while others provide forms for individuals to pursue stepparent adoption through the local court system. Consulting with a local adoption attorney is an invaluable resource. The American Academy of Adoption & Assisted Reproduction Attorneys lists a directory of appropriate attorneys on their website.
A fact sheet on step-parent adoption is available through Child Welfare Information Gateway: www.childwelfare.gov.
Adopting a relative
For information on kinship/relative adoption, including state laws on the topic, visit Child Welfare Information Gateway www.childwelfare.gov.
Adopting a Grandchild
Adopting an Adult
In most states, it is legal to adopt an adult. Among the most popular reasons:
More information on who may adopt or be adopted, visit the Child Welfare Information Gateway here.
Adopting a child from another country can be complicated and expensive. Some countries have significantly reduced the number of children that are available to be adopted, and others have eliminated international adoption entirely.
Nonetheless, there are agencies that can help you with international adoption. For information on adopting a child from another country, call the
Office of Children’s Issues, United State Department of State at 888-407-4747 or visit the Intercountry Adoption Bureau Consular Affairs US Department of State.