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WHO ARE THE CHILDREN SHOWN ON FREDDIE MAC FOUNDATION'S WEDNESDAY'S CHILD?

Children shown on Wednesday's Child are children in need of permanent adoptive families. Like other children who wait to be adopted, most are school-aged or teenagers. Many have emotional, physical or learning disabilities, or mental retardation. There are brothers and sisters who need to stay together. More than half of the children come from minority cultures.

Most children waiting for adoption are foster children, living in foster homes or group homes because their parents were unable to care for them. Often, personal and family problems made it impossible for the parents to maintain a home for their children. Some of these children have been abused, neglected or abandoned. In most cases, their parents' rights have been legally terminated; in others, those rights will be terminated when an adoptive family is found. The children are in the care of their state or county.

Despite their special needs and the challenges they may have faced in their young lives, Wednesday's Children are really just children. They are playful, fun-loving, resilient, deserving, and ready to make a new beginning.

See Adoption Article: Should I Expect a Child to Be Legally Free?
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See Adoption Article: What Is Meant by the Term Special Needs?
See Adoption Article: Behavioral Issues

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HOW CAN I FIND OUT IF A CHILD IS STILL AVAILABLE?

If a child is currently shown on the Freddie Mac Foundation's Wednesday's Child website, then that child is still available, as far as we know. The website coordinator depends on Wednesday's Child workers in each of the cities to keep the children's information up to date. When a child has a family selected, or if a child is no longer ready for adoption, perhaps due to hospitalization or another setback, the worker updates that child's record, and the child is removed from the site.

See Adoption Article: How Can I Place a Child on Hold?

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WHY ISN'T THERE MORE INFORMATION ABOUT THE CHILDREN?

The Internet is a very public place, where a child's description may be read by her classmates, teachers, neighbors, and birth family members, as well as by the child herself. Those providing the information about a child try to give honest information without violating dignity and privacy.
Each state, county, adoption exchange or website sets its own standards about what to include in–– and what to leave out of–– a narrative. Some jurisdictions do not allow personal or medical information to be disclosed. A child's social worker may also choose to keep things confidential.

See Adoption Article: Why Children's Internet Descriptions Don't Say More

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HOW CAN I GET MORE INFORMATION ABOUT A CHILD I AM INTERESTED IN?

If you have a current homestudy, use the online interest form to tell Wednesday's Child workers in the child's city about yourself. Someone will contact you within 2 business days. If a child's worker thinks your family may be a match for a child, he or she will request a copy of your homestudy from your worker, and will send a child profile to your worker. If you are selected, you should receive all available information about the child's medical, emotional, developmental, and educational needs.

Without a homestudy, you probably will not be able to get much more information about a child. One thing that you can do is visit the Wednesday's Child TV station website for the child's city. You may find brief additional information about a child, or a video of the Wednesday's Child broadcast which you can watch using the media player on your computer.

To reach the TV station websites, click on the child's city above, then click on the TV station logo at the top of the city page. When you get to the TV station's home page, select Wednesday's Child.

See Adoption Article: How Can I Get More Information?

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WHY AREN'T THERE BABIES ON FREDDIE MAC FOUNDATION'S WEDNESDAY'S CHILD?
HOW CAN I ADOPT A BABY?

The children featured on the Freddie Mac Foundation's Wednesday's Child television shows and website are children for whom families have been difficult to find in the area of the U.S. where they live. Usually it is not difficult to find families for healthy babies in their own city or county, so workers have no need to feature babies on a television show or website.

If you are open to a baby with a disability or with special needs, or if you can accept a child of any race, you may be able to adopt a waiting baby or toddler in the care of a public agency, like the agencies who work with Wednesday's Child. As you select an agency to work with, make the social workers aware of your interest.

Many families who adopt infants and toddlers begin their relationship as the child's foster parents. When an infant in foster care becomes eligible for adoption, the foster parents are usually the social worker's first choice. However, as a foster parent you must also be prepared for possible losses, and for being supportive of the birth family if the goal turns out to be returning the child to that family.

If you eventually hope to adopt more than one child, you might consider adopting a sibling group. You may be able to adopt a baby or toddler along with his or her older brother(s) or sister(s).

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