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Behavioral Issues When a child is described as having behavioral issues, what does that mean? If a child is described as having behavioral issues or challenges, it is important to learn more about the exact nature of the behavior before making any decisions about what the child needs or whether you can parent that child. Terms like "behavior problems" in a child's description are meant to suggest that you ask questions about this area. There is often a good explanation for a child's behavior which may result from experiences of trauma, abuse, or sexual abuse. Behavior that is difficult to manage may also be associated with emotional challenges or with such behavioral concerns as attention deficit disorder, conduct disorder, oppositional defiant disorder, or attachment disorder. Good behavior" does not just occur naturally as part of a child's development. Sometimes it does appear spontaneously and only needs to be noticed and reinforced by adults. But many types of behavior-- including sharing, good manners, empathy, study habits, and ethics--need to be taught. That's what children need parents for! How do you know when a child's behavior is serious enough to need outside help? As a parent or prospective parent, you should be familiar with normal child development, and the usual stages through which children progress. A pediatrician or family doctor can be a good resource for this information. As a general rule, it is time to consult a mental health provider if a child's behavior is age-inappropriate, is an on-going pattern (for instance, it occurs both at school and at home), and is interfering with his or her learning, growth, and social development. Treatment for behavioral challenges can take many forms. In most cases, family or school-based therapy programs can be considered before, or in addition to, the use of medications. And remember, whether the children you're raising are birth children or adopted, some behavior problems are inevitable. They are part of growing up. --- |